In 2014 I was caught being unfaithful. My wife caught me red-handed. She opened the laptop and iCloud poured out all the text messages, the photos, all the conversations I ever had. She packed up the three kiddos we had at the time, left me, and went to stay at our friends house in Michigan (five states away).
I had no idea what just happened. I was in shock. I lost EVERYTHING that day.
It took a couple days for me to come down from it to where I was thinking straight. However, I still had no idea what I had to do. My wife called me. “You have two choices.
Go get help by a counselor.
We are done.
You pick.”
So I did. I went on a hunt to find the best counselor in the nation who actually lived in our hometown Denver, at the time. And for four years me, and my wife (who came back home) leaned into what he had for us. From then on, I’ve never been the same. We have the BEST marriage on the planet. I also feel I can let her in on my deepest darkest secrets. It’s almost as if we know each other now. :)
It took me quite a few years to navigate it, but here I am now providing for you a stepping stone to what I experienced.
I’m choosing to help men who are overcome with what I had going years ago. Shame, guilt, fear, hypocritical, a fake, imposter, and mostly living two lives. This is meant as a stepping stone to get you where you want to be. Or where you ought to be. Perhaps you can’t afford a counselor, but you can afford a few courses to help you. I’m here. Perhaps you can’t afford thousands of dollars right now, but you can allow me to mentor you through some things along the way. I’m here. I’ve been where you are and know those feelings all too well. The knot is still in my throat.
I’ve been married for 13 years to the same woman, Leslie Burris “LB”. I have seven wonderful children; Averie, Fallon, Carden, Mellie, Lulu, Landric, and Bohannon. All their middle names are mine. Monroe. I am a reader of the Bible, a minister for ten years, a writer, a lover of music, and I enjoy helping people learn to transform their life.